I spent most of my young adult years thinking I was broken. I struggled to fit in, to have my own identity. I suffered a lot with depression, not really knowing how to handle it. In my more recent years especially since my separation from my ex husband I have learned that I am not broken. Yes, I have memories of my childhood of a somewhat dysfunctional family. But instead of blaming my problems on my past, I embrace the past and it helps me to understand why I am the way I am today. All of my romantic relationships have been with fixers. I understand a lot of men are built this way. Naturally when a problem is presented, they want to find the best, easiest, fastest way to solve it. That's great and fine, but does not work for everyone. See, as I've discovered more about my mental health I have learned how to predict a depressive episode. I tell this to my potential partner(s) and even when presented the information, it still doesn't make sense to them. Why would you ...